What were we looking for... (about mars and venus)
I was having a conversation with a friend, and what do you like about the person - came up in the subject. What do we look for, seriously, being all doe-eyed - when we think in terms of a life-partner. What we look when we are in our teens - is definitely NOT the same as what we look for when we are in our twenties. Likewise, what we look for in our twenties, are NOT the same as in our thirties, and forties, and so on. My first crush was Luke Skywalker. Maybe it was the wonder of watching STAR WARS. Ok, so it was the first long term crush. One sided, as Luke Skywalker DOES NOT exist. ahahaha. So when I read sometime later that the actor representing Skywalker had married, the crush ended immediately. A married person was not in my list of "eligible" men - even at a young age, being forced to witness unfaithfulness and the devastation of it in the lives of my own relatives. Late teenage brought the opportunity to date a really good man. A wonderful musician. Stable. Strong. P
